My New Life Partner

Last June, I married that lovely man pictured so delicately above.  But he’s not my latest life partner, I’ve already moved on! (Richard is shaking his head while reading this over my shoulder)   I’m happy to announce the newest member of my family: a new cello.  The search began last summer, with trips to New York, Boston, and Chicago, and stops in about 10-15 instrument shops.  I got serious about a couple of cellos, but none felt absolutely right.  Then, in November, I got in touch with the brother of a friend, who works for a shop in Boston, and he flew down to Miami to bring me this cello to try.  After playing it for friends, having friends play it for me, playing it in different sized rooms with different acoustics, and spending a few solid weeks getting to know it, I bit the bullet.  My other, beloved cello is now heading back to Boston (where it initially came from) and I’m starting fresh with this beautiful instrument.  It’s an old English cello, made around 1800 by Bernhard Fendt (aka “Old Barney”) for the famous Dodd shop in London.  It’s got a smooth, somewhat dark sound, and definitely has a personality of its own.  It makes me want to practice all day, which, I suppose, is probably the point!

Looking for a new instrument, I discovered, is a bit like online dating.  It starts by coming up with a list of requirements that need to be met (tall, funny, liberal…or in the case of a cello: clear, warm tone, full sounding…).  Once you’ve got your list, you get to see all of the dating options available to you, and you can decide to either get in touch with them or not.  You go on a lot of dates (or try cellos at numerous shops), and in most cases, you know from the first 5 minutes if you’re not interested.  But there are a few people who you think you might connect with on a deeper level, and with them, you meet up again, or even date them for a while (with instruments, if you feel yourself “falling in love” in the shop, you can take the object of your affections out for a trial period to play for a week or more).  In the end, you finally realize that the person you’re dating is, in fact, the ONE.  And at that point, whether it’s a person or a cello, you make a lifelong (or career long) commitment to them.

Just as in a marriage, a cello and its owner are intrinsically connected, and the relationship between them continues to grow and mature over time.  As the wood of the instrument ages, the personalities of the cello and the player merge.  Many musicians who have had their instruments for a long time consider it an extension of themselves when they are playing.  Even in the short time I have been playing my new cello, I can already feel the instrument adapting to my playing, and I in turn am making my own adjustments to get the most I can out it.

I can hardly express in words how excited I am about the new cello.  If you’d like to hear it, here is a short clip of the beginning of the Haydn D Major Concerto.  I just recorded it in on a webcam, so the quality isn’t fantastic, but you can get the idea.  Enjoy!